The word feeling was first used to describe the physical sensation of touch through either experience or perception. But the word can also cause a lot of damage as well.The word can be used to describe experiences other than the physical sensation of touch, such as “a feeling of warmth, hurt, sadness or fright.” In psychology, the word is used for the conscious subjective experience of emotion. And emotion can be where the word feeling can be so mislead.
Perception of the physical world does not necessarily result in a universal reaction among receivers, but varies depending on one’s tendency to handle the situation, how the situation relates to the receiver’s past experiences, and any number of other factors, which is where confusion and or damage can begin.
Feelings are also known as a state of consciousness, such as that resulting from emotions, sentiments or desires.
People buy products or be with people in hopes that this certain product or person will make them feel a certain way either happy, excited or beautiful.
Past events are used in our lives to form plans and ideas in our minds and based on those past experiences we expect our lives to follow a certain script just because of a past event, but it doesn’t mean someone else understands that. They just might see you as being picky or judgemental, annoying or controlling.
When I have an in depth conversation with someone based on my feelings, even though they don’t necessarily understand where the feeling had come from in the first place, it would always be nice to be heard and respected.
Understanding of the past event leading to the feeling will be revealed. So take your time, listen, process, ask questions, then understand, don’t jump to conclusions as this can be dangerous.